What Makes a Wedding Whimsical (And Why You’ll Love It)
Think Alice in Wonderland meets modern romance.
Picture walking down an aisle lined with oversized paper flowers while rainbow-colored ribbons dance in the breeze.
That’s whimsical.
It’s playful without being childish.
Magical without being cheesy.
And personal – so incredibly personal.
Time Investment: Plan on spending 2-3 months gathering all your magical pieces
Budget Reality: $3,000-$15,000 (but I’ll show you how to do it for less)
Best Venues: Gardens, art galleries, historic homes, or anywhere with character
DIY Level: Beginner-friendly with room to get fancy
The beauty of whimsical weddings? They work anywhere.
I’ve seen couples transform boring hotel ballrooms into enchanted forests.

Backyards become fairy tale gardens. Even that quirky local museum becomes pure magic with the right touches.
Must-Have Elements for Maximum Whimsy
Let me paint you a picture of whimsical perfection.
Your Hero Pieces:
- A ceremony arch dripping with wildflowers and trailing ribbons
- Mismatched vintage chairs in jewel tones
- Giant balloons in metallic or pastel shades
- A dessert table that looks like it came from Candyland
The Supporting Cast:
- Fairy lights strung everywhere (and I mean everywhere)
- Colorful glass vases filled with single stem flowers
- Hand-painted signs with quotes from your favorite books
- Paper lanterns in rainbow hues
Last year, I helped my cousin style her whimsical wedding. We hit up every thrift store in town.
Found the most gorgeous mismatched china plates and teacups. Mixed them with brand new gold flatware.
The contrast? Chef’s kiss
Color Schemes That Scream Whimsy
Forget boring neutrals. Whimsical weddings demand color – lots of it.
Option 1: Rainbow Bright
Mix every color of the rainbow but keep them soft. Think watercolor paintings come to life. Add white to ground everything.
Option 2: Jewel Tone Drama
Deep emerald, rich sapphire, vibrant amethyst. Mix with metallics like gold or copper. Perfect for fall or winter weddings.
Option 3: Pastel Paradise
Soft pink, lavender, mint, and butter yellow. Add unexpected pops of coral or turquoise. Spring and summer perfection.
DIY Projects That’ll Make Guests Gasp
Here’s where you can really save money and add personality.
Easy Wins:
- Paint wooden signs with funny quotes
- String origami cranes from fishing line
- Fill mason jars with wildflowers
- Create a backdrop with crepe paper streamers
Level Up Projects:
- Build a flower wall using artificial flowers
- Construct a whimsical photo booth with vintage frames
- Design custom acrylic signs with colorful backing
Setting Up Your Whimsical Wonderland
Start Big:
- Position your ceremony arch first
- Arrange major furniture pieces
- Hang all overhead elements
- Set up lighting before it gets dark
Layer In Details:
- Scatter rose petals on tables











